Lately, I have been hearing a lot about people who are "lazy." It's funny how this has become such a negative term. Growing up in the South, to have a "lazy afternoon" conjures up images of a sunny Sunday afternoon, swinging in the hammock on the front porch, while reading, visiting with friends, or simply lost in your own thoughts. What, I ask you, is the problem with that? My ex boyfriend is a work-a-holic, and he tells me I am "lazy" because I don't work as much as he does. I also take the time to sit with my kids and watch whatever show they want, and this is me "wasting time". When have we become a society of constant productivity? Why is it suddenly considered a bad thing to take time for yourself, and take days off from the merry go round of life?
I have a name for those who never get off the racetrack: CRAZY. Rhymes with LAZY, but means the opposite. Seriously, my ex drinks himself into oblivion every night, and has no friends, but, by golly, he is PRODUCTIVE. Really? Because if that's what it means to be successful, I would rather be lazy. I would rather have time to go down to the beach and walk, and breathe, and come home to a quiet night of reading and talking with friends. I work hard when I work, and if you don't have a balance of quiet time, or time to yourself, you will very soon find yourself in the cycle of depression and despair which makes you feel the need to criticize others and justify your actions. To judge others is simply an expression of jealousy. If you find yourself needing to judge others in order to validate your own choices, you really need to take a step back and look at your own life. I guarantee that, if you are truly happy with yourself, you will not feel the need to cause pain for others.
Take time to enjoy your life, TODAY, or it will have passed you by. And in the end, when you have wealth, and possessions, but no one to listen to your deepest thoughts, and no ability to relax without alcohol or drugs, what have you really accomplished?
Wishing you all a very LAZY Sunday:)